Get independent and stop dealing with CRAP

There are many reasons to strive for financial independence. For me, some of them are company politics and the never-ending dealing with CRAP. It’s one of my favourite acronyms:

  • Criticism
  • Rejection
  • Assholes
  • Pressure

You can’t become a leader in any organization without it. It’s part of the deal. No matter what you do, once you are in charge of others, CRAP will be part of your daily experience. It’s to a large part the reason why people in higher positions get higher salaries. It’s not really about their skillset, but more so about their ability to deal with CRAP.

And some might even enjoy it for a while. The constant competition, attention and the feeling of winning whenever you come out on the top. But in the long-run it is tiring. Exhausting. And you are not always winning, you will be losing frequently. In fact, the amount of times that you got to pull yourself together, to get up after you have been beaten down and to push through things that might not match your moral or ethic standards, your expectations and believes, it is so much higher compared to the few wins that you collect along the way.

Some just accept it for what it is. But for others, this might lead to depression, frustrations, the occasional loss of faith in humanity, and burn-out. On top of all that, it is really time-consuming and you might start asking yourself, why you are doing all the effort. What is the actual purpose of your journey?

Serving others is the true purpose of any company out there

Tim Cook said it once and he is absolutely right. Every company, every product and every service is meant to be for someone, to solve some problem, challenge or requirement. Solving problems creates value and pricing follows. So whatever we do when we work, we do it to serve.

When you recognize this to be the case, you have the best chances to really understand the purpose of what you are doing. Knowing your purpose gives you passion, and aligning with it leads to dedication. Dedication leads to success. Success doesn’t necessarily mean a monetary reward, but it often comes along with it.

But serving others is a never-ending task. There will always be a problem. A challenge. An obstacle. A restraint, limitation or a sudden turn of events. And there are always other people. Foes and friends. Competitors. Supervisors. Investors. Shareholders. Politicians.

The more success you have, the more lives you will affect. Whether you want it or not, your actions will have an influence on the lives of other people. On the dreams, which you might elevate or destroy for those who work under you, to the pressure and constant rejection by the supervisors who you work for. Shareholders and investors will always keep you under pressure to deliver the best possible financial results. Sometimes forcing you to action things that might go against your conscienceĀ or against what you might consider being the right thing to do.

Cut the CRAP

And I think it’s all actually OK. It’s important. Going this path for a while can help you to understand how human minds work, about group dynamics, all the different agendas out there that people follow. Personal and business-wise. It will give you a deeper understanding of different perspectives, sometimes unexpected connections, incentives and occasional shocks on what may seem like irrational behaviour or unforeseen turn of events. Pushing towards success helps us to develop, to learn and to understand the world around us a little more.

But I don’t think you need to do this your entire life. There is a point when the whole thing becomes overwhelming. A burden. Your mind will be dragged down, your physical condition will start to suffer, your personal relations will get affected and step by step you might start seeing only the problems around you. Depression may follow and with it a steep fall from your high ground at work, and possible medical repercussions.

We call this a burn-out. It doesn’t happen overnight, but when you climb the career ladder, it will slowly creep into your work-life. Usually, when you notice it it’s already too late. So knowing all this, how can you avoid it from happening? The answers are, firstly by becoming financially independent and secondly, by choosing when to stop.

Financial independence comes first, because it’s the tool that allows you to go for the second step. When you become financially independent, you can cut the CRAP at any given time without the need to worry about any repercussions on your life. Your shelter, food and healthcare can remain protected. If you really think about it, you will realize that this is quite a lot, more than most people on the planet have today.

Find your inspiration

For me, CRAP is one of the most important reasons for working even harder to reach FIRE. This doesn’t need to be the case for everyone. Some people might enjoy regular work. Having their 7 to 5, the daily soap operas at the office, the feeling of belonging somewhere. Those may find their inspiration for FIRE somewhere else. But for me, after independence and freedom, CRAP is the next immediate reason on my list of motivations to get out of the rat race.

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